Prostate Massage Stimulation techniques
 

Why would you want to explore prostate massage stimulation in sex?

Most men do not realise that the anus has just as many nerve endings as the head of the penis.

This means that the anus can provide a lot of pleasure. You do not have to be gay to enjoy anal touch from your lover.

One can also explore self prostate stimulation in the privacy of your home.

The key to prostate massage is relaxation. Any penetration should be totally pain free and pleasurable.

Most men and women hold a lot of tension in the anus. You need to learn how to relax this area.

The other key is to use lots of lubrication on and in the anus. There are lube tubes these days that can make this process easy.

I suggest you start with an outer anal massage for at least 20 minutes to relax the anal ring of muscles. Press into the muscles just in the anus at the 12 o'clock position and hold for a minute. Now go to the 1 o'clock position and do the same.

Continue around the anus, pressing and relaxing. One can take some deep breaths during this process.

One can use different sizes of sex toys to relax the anus. Start with a butt plug that is small and work up to larger sizes. I have 3 different ones to do this.

Now gently do in deeper. You will find you can learn to relax the anal muscles as you penetrate. Make sure you use lots of lubrication.

The prostate is located on the upper wall facing the stomach. It is usually in about 1 to 2 inches inside the rectum. You will know when you touch this area by the feelings which is totally unique to this area.

The feeling is different when you are aroused. Try some penis massage and then touch your prostate. I find the thumb is the best way to do a self prostate massage orgasm.

Having your partner doing a prostate stimulation is nicer as you can relax more. In fact doing a slow prostate massage can be very connecting if you make eye contact.

So instead of going to stimulation, try to go to total relaxation. This is because you are massaging the smooth muscles in the body. The rectum is the only way you can touch smooth muscles. This can be so connecting that it is out of this world,

The best position is for the person to straddle the massage table. Now the person receiving the massage lies on his back and places his legs over the legs of the person giving the massage.

Make eye contact and the person giving the prostate massage gives a slow massage on the prostate area.

One can use an aneros massage toy for increasable prostate orgasms in man on top positions. This toy is totally hands free and moves as your anal muscles contract.

A prostate orgasm can be much more intense compared to a ejaculation orgasm. It can even be a dry orgasm. This means you do not loose any energy and can make love for hours.

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